Saturday 26 February 2022

The beginning of the end


 Geoff eventually had his appointment for nerve conduction rests last Tuesday.   Complete waste of time.   The consultant who did the tests said she couldn’t see any improvement but we all, including Geoff, see a big improvement.  She then went on to say that sometimes this sort of damage can be caused by a prolonged stay in hospital!   Since he was admitted with the problem which started suddenly, also not true. So as I said…..waste of time.

Later that evening when Geoff was safely tucked up I had a call to say a bed had been found for him in Cornwall.   Since the application only went in 2 days previously, that is nothing short of miraculous considering the stories of bed shortages in Cornwall.  The fly in the ointment is that the bed was in Helston, you can’t get a lot further down south than that.  However as bird in the hand so they say😎😎

Helston actually wanted him to take it up the next day but Abingdon said they couldn’t organise transport so quickly so Thursday was agreed.   I went in on Wednesday to sort out all his clothes and belongings and pack into one case which was all the ambulance will take.   On Thursday the transport didn’t turn up until 5.15 as they had had problems on their first trip of the day.  After a very long journey he was eventually tucked up in bed in Helston in a single room ( all new admissions have to start in single room until they prove to be germ free🤣🤣) 

Now starts my job this end……..Petroc has to be sold which is incredibly sad.  So after a weekend recovering from a very hectic and stressful couple of days, I will start the clearing and packing etc etc.   I need to get her professionally cleaned ( I do not have the energy!) and ready to go on the market.  Provisionally Boe and I will be back in Cornwall by about 6/7 March.

We initially thought Geoff would not be able to have visitors as Helston has been closed to visiting for nearly two years.   That all changed yesterday when they started opening up again but in a very limited way.  With luck I should manage to get a couple of one hour slots for friends next week.   They do not anticipate his stay will be very long.  They need to assess his capabilities and then our house to see what his needs are, so he could be home before the end of March.  On the 18th of March (if still there) he will have been in hospital 6 months.   

It’s the start of a new Chapter……we have had 15 years of a great life on the canals with Petroc, just hope we can find a buyer who will get the same enjoyment from her.




8 comments:

Carol said...

Good and sad news Gill. Hope all goes well with your move now back to Cornwall and with the sale of Petroc. As one door closes another one opens. Regards to you both.

Gillygrove said...

Thanks Carol. I am trying to be philosophical about it!

How are you getting on after your shock to the system??

Gill

Pat G said...

Good luck Gill and take it slowly. I’m sure it will all work out for the better in the end. Much love to you both. Pat and David

BigJohn said...

I hope you have the energy, both physically and mentally,to do all you have to do. Then I hope someone finds Petroc as satisfying as you have. Finally, I hope being in Cornwall speeds Geoff's recovery and that OT, Consultant and Physio are available and skillful in restoring him. God bless you all in this next chapter ❤️🙏

AB said...

Great news Gill so hope all goes well with sorting Petroc out and coming home to Cornwall. God bless. Angela

nb Bonjour said...

Dear Gilly,
I have been pointed in your direction by Adam Porter (nb Briar Rose). I am so sorry you have to sell your boat in such circumstances, and send my best wishes to you for Geoff's health. We sold our boat Chuffed last year, fondly imagining we could find something a bit newer and maybe a bit bigger quite easily - but have found it very difficult, as anything suitable gets sold before we have the chance to travel to see it. We live in Devon, so not as far southwest as you, but still a long way from the main network! Would you be able to send us some details about Petroc, her length, layout etc please? I can see she's a semi-trad and a nice colour, but not a lot else!
best wishes
Debby and Dave Mullier,
ex-nb Chuffed

Gillygrove said...

hi Debbie and Dave
Can you send me an email address or phone number for Whatsapp and I can send you some pictures.

my phone 07740856824 or email gillygrove@gmail.com

Gill

Gillygrove said...

Hi Debbie and Dave
Just looked at your blog. Don’t think Petroc is any bigger. We are 57.5 ft.
We are not reverse layout.

Any other queries you can use phone or email

Gill